If there is misunderstanding and questioning (and of course discrimination) towards ladyboys, there is not less for the MEN who like LADYBOYS. Yes, ladyboys are enigmatic, intriguing and exciting creatures. They arouse the curiosity of a lot of people who are not familiar with the culture of transgenders. In the mind of the quidam, they’re a source of misunderstanding, incomprehension, and sometimes they even shock! But the same goes for the men who like them. They’re actually many (more than you could think!), but only a few admit it openly, like I do. My friends and family know about it, and I’m lucky enough to have open minded people around me to not suffer about it.
“Ladyboy lovers” arouse a lot of questions and incomprehension also! That’s the reason why most of them don’t dare to come up to the light with their special sexual orientation, or don’t want to commit because they feel shy or ashamed. Not that they really have a weak personality (or crudely: they don’t have balls!) but the society is making them that way. Of course some like ladyboys just for fun. But others are willing to get into a serious relationship with them, and are just stopped by the dogmas of the society which are against it.
Who are the ladyboy lovers
For what I know, ladyboy lovers are really normal guys. Talking about the general case, ladyboy lovers are straight men, who don’t feel any attraction to other dudes. They like femininity and beautiful women, and that’s a reason why they’re attracted to ladyboys, because ladyboys are most of the time more feminine and sexy than real girls.
There is no special type for a ladyboy lover. Young (and the crowd seems to be younger and younger nowadays) or old, high class or low class, social or introvertite… They’re just like the normal crowd, with a special attraction for transgender women. Some are not even looking for a TS girlfriend, but come to have the (happy) surprise to find out that the girl they’re dating and developing feelings for is not a real girl, but a ladyboy, and then if they’re open enough with their sexuality, they become ladyboy lovers de facto. And these guys were absolutely not ladyboy lovers at the beginning, they are just normal random guys.
If we consider transgenders as a “third sex”, then we can say of the men who are attracted to them that transgenders are just their sexual orientation. I see it that way, and actually it’s my belief, that being attracted to ladyboys is, in fact, a sexual orientation, and not a sexual weirdness nor a fantasy. Society always told us that sexuality (and love relationships) are to be binary: either you’re straight (and thus you’re normal) or you’re not (and thus you’re a freak). Mentalities evolved, and now being gay is also very well accepted (and it’s even hype). But being attracted to transgenders is not as well accepted yet. To the eyes of most of the people, you’d be considered more normal to be gay rather than to be a ladyboy lover. I came across the term “transoriented” recently, it’s not widespread but I believe it fits pretty well. Some people are straight, some are homosexual, some are… transoriented.
Tranny chasers and admirers, different thing
I don’t like the word “tranny chaser”, neither do I for “admirer”. But they actually refer to a different type of guys, different from ladyboy lovers (transoriented). Ladyboys are of course sexual type of persons. The term itself is categorising them with the following criteria: sex. The porn industry (shemales, ladyboys, chicks with dicks…) and the sex industry in general (prostitution, escorting, cam shows…) have not given a good image to transgenders, and many men wrongly consider them as a fantasy or a sexual thing only. These men, who hang out in bars and dark streets and are looking for a tranny (and tranny also is a very sexual term) to fuck for one night, are the tranny chasers, not the ladyboy lovers.
Online, the term “admirer” is also common for describing men who like ladyboys. But it’s kind of pejorative, and specific to the men who are indeed attracted to ladyboys but never took the guts to do the first step in real life. Basically, they keep it as a fantasy, usually never admit it publicly. They’re called admirers because they obviously crave for having an experience with a transgender, but can’t get to find one. If they’re not living in Asia, it’s indeed more tricky to get to meet a lot of ladyboys (but a good ladyboy dating guide can help you in that case). They’re also the kind of guys who have a big collection of shemale porn movies of course, and a fake Facebook account with exclusively ladyboy in their friends list. They don’t admit it openly.
For tranny chasers and admirers, this is just about sex. For ladyboy lovers and transoriented men, this is also about love. Guys, if you’re really into meeting quality ladyboys, start by finding out which category you belong to, and if you’re in the wrong one, try to change 😉 The quality ladyboys will naturally come to you, and you will just leave the cheap girls to the others.
I hope my analysis makes sense to you 🙂 Anyways, as usual, comments and sharing are welcome and much appreciated.
By the way, I just recently opened this Facebook group — Meet My Ladyboy Girlfriend — and it counts more than 300 members in just 2 days, and it’s still growing (thank you all!), I want to keep this group clean for people who are really into dating and not paid sex nor dirty stuff. So no pigs, and no escorts please 🙂 and I believe that can make a good group! Also, don’t forget to like my Fan Page and to follow me on Twitter. Thanks you!