My current girlfriend Anne is a Filipino ladyboy, we have been together for three years and we are now living together in Manila, Philippines. For all these years that we have been together, I never seen her as a guy nor consider her as a man. Although she has something extra special down there, I totally see her as a woman. It’s not that I am being biased because she is my girlfriend and I love her, but I totally see all transsexuals or ladyboys as women because they live their whole life as a women in spite of the fact that they are born as a man biologicaly. And they are happy of the life they choose because they believe in their heart, mind and soul that it makes them happy, and most importantly they have the heart to love a man like women do. As a matter of fact this is more than enough to consider transsexuals and ladyboys as female.
Am I Gay?
No, not at all. I don’t see myself as a a gay. I am quite open minded to begin with, and don’t really care what people say. All I know is I am happy with my ladyboy girlfriend. I love her as woman, I love her femininity, and not to brag, people can’t even tell that my girlfriend is a ladyboy because she is so naturally feminine. I don’t see any basis for people to call me gay; when you see us walking in the street, all you see is a regular (beautiful) couple, and you can’t even suspect a thing. Thus I am not gay.
I like ladyboys, am I gay?
I believe that this is still a common and unending question, which can possibly be one of the reasons that stops you from dating your dream girl. You can find various answers/opinions on the Internet but I believe that yourself alone can answer this simple question. You know yourself better than anyone else. But let me help you answer this. You are attracted to ladyboys or transsexuals because of their femininity. You admire them because they wear dresses, skirts, high heels, sexy shorts and they completely look like women, you can sometimes hardly even tell that they are TS because they live their life 24/7 as females. They aren’t men acting to be girls and you can’t categorise them as “cross-dressers” because it’s not what they are — psychology defines “cross-dressing” as a fetish where a guy uses or wears girl stuff for sexual pleasure. LB/Transsexuals are living their life as women and you like them and get turned on with them because of their feminity, not because they look like dudes. They may still have their penises, but that is part of who they are and you need to accept them for having that because that makes ladyboys special. If you admire them for being feminine, technically you’re not gay and I firmly believe that you’re not. And this should not be the basis for you to identify your gender or sexual orientation. On the other hand, if you are not attracted to masculine features like hairs, muscles, beard etc., then you are not gay. So don’t let this question stop you from being happy.
I am living in the Philippines with my ladyboy girlfriend. A country where Roman Catholicism is the major religion, surrounded by many conservative people. But here I am living with my ladyboy girlfriend, living like a normal couple as man and woman. And I don’t care what other people say to me all I know is that I am the happiest man on earth to have a ladyboy girlfriend like Anne.